FAQs on Foreign LGBTIQA+ Couples getting Married in Australia

If you’re living outside Australia and wondering whether you can legally marry here – the answer is yes.

And Melbourne is one of the safest, most welcoming places in the world to do it.

As a gay marriage celebrant in Melbourne, I regularly marry same-sex couples who travel here specifically to make their relationship legal. Some come from countries where marriage equality doesn’t exist. 

For many couples, the plan is beautifully straightforward. They fly in, we meet, we marry, and they fly home. No long holiday. No extended stay. 

Just the legal ceremony they’ve been waiting for.

Others turn it into a little adventure. They arrive a few days early, explore Melbourne, get married, celebrate properly, maybe travel a little more – and then head home.

Both are completely possible.

Can foreigners get married in Melbourne?

Yes.

You do not need to:

• be an Australian citizen
• be a permanent resident
• live in Australia
• stay in Australia for a specific length of time.

You can marry in Melbourne while visiting on a tourist (visitor) visa.

Australia’s marriage laws apply equally to same-sex couples. The legal requirements are the same for everyone.

Why choose Melbourne to get married as a same-sex couple?

Melbourne is known for:

• a strong and visible LGBTIQA+ community
• legal protections for queer couples
• beautiful parks, gardens and city architecture
• a relaxed, inclusive culture.

You can marry:

• in a park overlooking the city skyline
• along the Yarra River
• in a private apartment or hotel
• in one of Melbourne’s historic buildings
• on a beach
• in my front garden
• anywhere you choose!  

Whether you want something simple and private or small and celebratory, Melbourne makes it easy.

You can also read more about beautiful places to get married in Melbourne here: https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/gay-friendly-wedding-venues-in-melbourne/

What’s the best time of year to get married in Melbourne?

The most popular months for weddings here are November and March.

The weather is usually warm and pleasant – without the deep winter chill (June to August) or the peak summer heat (December to February). 

These months also fall outside major school holiday periods, so the city feels a little calmer.

That said, many of my LGBTIQA+ couples don’t choose their wedding date based on “perfect light” or traditional Saturday afternoon timelines.

Instead, they choose:

• when flights are cheapest
• when they can both get leave from work
• a meaningful anniversary or birthday
• er simply the earliest possible date

There’s a saying in Melbourne: we have four seasons in one day. It means you should always be prepared for unpredictable weather – no matter the month. Bring a jacket. Bring sunscreen. Bring flexibility. 

We’ll make it beautiful, regardless.

This is one of the most common questions I receive.

Yes.

Overseas same-sex couples can legally marry in Melbourne while visiting Australia on a tourist (Visitor) visa.

There is:

• no residency requirement
• no minimum stay requirement
• no obligation to remain in Australia after your marriage ceremony. 

You simply need to meet the standard legal conditions and lodge your Notice of Intended Marriage with me as your authorised marriage celebrant at least one month before your wedding day.

Why couples choose this option

Many same-sex couples travel to Melbourne because:

• marriage equality doesn’t exist in their home country
• they need an official marriage certificate
• they want legal recognition
• they want to formalise their relationship somewhere safe.

Melbourne is known for being inclusive, progressive and welcoming.

It is a city where your marriage is not unusual. It is respected.

How quickly can you marry?

The earliest possible wedding date is one month after I receive your Notice of Intended Marriage.

Beyond that, the timing is flexible.

I’ve married couples who:

• arrived in the morning
• married at lunchtime
• flew home, legally married, that evening.

Melbourne makes that possible.

A final word

Getting married shouldn’t feel impossible.

If you’re travelling to Melbourne to make your relationship legally recognised, you deserve:

• safety 
• clarity
• professional guidance
• respect
• simplicity.

As a gay celebrant in Melbourne, I specialise in helping overseas same-sex couples marry here legally and without stress.

If you’re ready to begin, you can contact me here: https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/contact/

If you’re travelling to Australia to get married, you want clarity.

Here’s what matters.

Is same-sex marriage legal in Australia?

Yes.

Since December 2017, same-sex marriage has been legal throughout Australia, including Melbourne, Victoria.

Under Australian law, marriage is defined as “The union of two people to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.”

That includes you.

Do you need a special visa to get married?

No.

There is no special “marriage visa” required simply to marry in Melbourne. Most overseas couples marry here while visiting on a tourist (or Visitor) visa.

There is also:

• No minimum stay requirement
• No residency requirement
• No obligation to remain in Australia afterwards. 

If you plan to live in Australia after your marriage, you will need to seek advice from the Australian Department of Home Affairs or a registered migration agent. 

My role is to ensure your marriage is legally valid. Migration advice must come from a migration professional. You may find helpful information here: https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/lgbtiqa-migrant-protection-australia/

https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/getting-married-australia-visa-same-sex-couples/

https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/same-sex-prospective-marriage-visa-australia/

Will your marriage be recognised in your home country?

This depends on the laws of your country.

Some countries recognise Australian same-sex marriages. Others do not. Some require additional paperwork.

Before travelling, you should check with:

• your country’s embassy, or
• a legal adviser in your home country

After your ceremony in Melbourne, you can apply for your official Australian marriage certificate, which is often required for recognition overseas. As a marriage celebrant, I offer this as one of my services to you. 

Why work with a specialist gay celebrant in Melbourne?

When you’re travelling internationally to get married, there’s no room for mistakes.

You need:

• someone who’s safe
• accurate paperwork
• clear timelines
• calm guidance
• experience working with overseas same-sex couples

That’s exactly what I provide. It’s no surprise that I’ve conducted over 200 LGBTIQA+ marriages, more than ay celebrant in Australia! 

If you’d like to understand the full process step-by-step, you can read my detailed guide here: https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/wedding-guide-australia-lgbtiqa-foreigner-couples/

To legally marry in Melbourne, Australia, you must meet the following requirements.

These rules apply equally to:

• Australian citizens
• permanent residents
• tourists
• international same-sex couples

There are no additional restrictions for international couples.

The legal requirements

You must:

1. not already be married
2. not be closely related – for example, be brother and brother or mother and daughter
3. be 18 years or older
4. freely consent to the marriage
5. understand what marriage means
6. lodge a Notice of Intended Marriage with an authorised marriage celebrant at least one month before the ceremony
7. say the required legal wording during the ceremony, in front of two witnesses and a marriage celebrant.

Marriage law in Australia is federal (that is, regulated by the Australian Government), but ceremonies in Melbourne take place in the state of Victoria.
The most important requirement is the one-month notice period. Everything else can be prepared in advance.

Do you need to live in Australia?

No.

There is no residency requirement, to marry in Melbourne.

You can marry here while visiting on a tourist (Visitor) visa.

What couples often worry about

Many overseas same-sex couples tell me they feel overwhelmed before they begin.
They worry:

• Will our documents be accepted?
• Will our marriage be legal?
• Will we have enough time?

My role as a gay marriage celebrant in Melbourne is to remove that feeling of being overwhelmed.

You don’t need to navigate Australian marriage law alone.

If you’d like a clear explanation of how the process works from start to finish, you can read my step-by-step guide here: https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/wedding-guide-australia-lgbtiqa-foreigner-couples/

If you prefer things clearly explained, here is the process

Simple. Practical. Clear.

Step 1: Contact a Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Start by reaching out (https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/contact/) and letting me know:

• where you’re travelling from
• when you’re hoping to marry
• how long you’ll be in Melbourne

From there, I’ll map out a timeline.
Step 2: Lodge Your Notice of Intended Marriage

This is the most important legal step.

I must receive your Notice at least one calendar month before your wedding date.

For example:
If I receive it on 10 June, the earliest you can marry is 10 July.

The Notice remains valid for 18 months.

If you’re overseas, the form can be witnessed in your home country and sent to me in advance. These are the people who can witness you signing the Notice, if you’re outside Australia: an Australian Consular Officer, an Australian Embassy Officer, an Australian High Commission Officer, or a Notary Public. Note that any of these can witness the Notice remotely, if that is safer or necessary for you.   

You can read more about the Notice of Intended Marriage here: https://bronteprice.com.au/6-common-mistakes-made-in-noim/

Step 3: Get Ready to Provide Evidence of Identity

When you marry in Melbourne, I need to confirm that you and your partner are who you say you are.

This is a standard legal requirement under Australian marriage law. It’s straightforward – and I’ll guide you through it.

1. Proof of your identity and date of birth

You’ll need to show evidence of your:

• full name
• date of birth
• place of birth

The easiest way to do this is with your passport.
You can use:

• an Australian passport, or
• a passport from any other country

Your passport can be expired, as long as it expired within the last five years. However, it cannot be used if it has been cancelled.

If you don’t have a passport, you can provide:

• your birth certificate, and
• your driver’s licence (or another government-issued photo ID)

If you’re unsure about what documents you have available, simply ask – I’ll let you know what will work.

2. Evidence of divorce or death (if you’ve been previously married)

If you’ve been married before, you must provide evidence that your previous marriage has legally ended.

This means:

• a divorce certificate, or
• a death certificate (if your previous spouse has died).

If you have been married more than once, you only need to provide evidence relating to your most recent marriage.
Step 4: Arrive in Melbourne

There is no legal requirement to stay for a certain number of days.

I’ve married LGBTIQA+ couples who:

• arrived the day before
• stayed for a week
• flew in and out the same day.

Melbourne makes it all possible.

Step 5: Your Wedding Ceremony

Your ceremony can be:

• a simple legal ceremony
• an intimate Melbourne elopement
• a small gathering with friends
• a quiet private exchange in front of two witnesses (I can provide two witnesses, if you know no-one in Melbourne).

You must say specific legal wording during the ceremony in front of two witnesses and me. I guide you through this calmly and clearly.

And then – you’re legally married in Australia.

If you’re planning a short Melbourne stay and want something simple and elegant, you can also explore my Melbourne elopement option here: https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/packages/ – the Short and Sweet Ceremony = an Elopement.

In Australia, you can’t “just sign paperwork” and call it a marriage.

A marriage ceremony is mandatory – but that doesn’t mean it has to be long, traditional, or full of fluff.

Many LGBTIQA+ couples choose something simple: legal, meaningful, and genuinely them.

Who needs to be there?

A legal wedding ceremony in Melbourne must include:

• both people getting married
• an authorised marriage celebrant (that’s me)
• two witnesses over the age of 18

If you don’t know anyone in Melbourne, I can arrange witnesses for you.

You can also bring two friends or family members if you’d like – I don’t need their ID, just their full names.

What does the ceremony include?

Most ceremonies include:

• a brief welcome
• the monitum (legal words I must say)
• the legal vows (legal words you must say)
• optional personal vows
• optional ring exchange
• signing the marriage certificates
• a declaration that you are married

‘Short and sweet’ ceremonies

If you want the “bare bones” legal ceremony, a short and sweet wedding usually takes around 15 minutes.

It’s calm, respectful, and still special – without extra padding.

If you’d like to see exactly what’s included, you can read about my short and sweet ceremony option here: https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/packages/
Where can you get married in Melbourne?

Anywhere.

A park. A beach. Your hotel room. A restaurant. A backyard.

I even offer my front garden to couples who want a simple, private space – at no extra charge.

You may also like to check out some other beautiful places to get married in Melbourne: https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/gay-friendly-wedding-venues-in-melbourne/

There’s a second legal form involved in getting married in Australia that many couples haven’t heard of.

It’s called the Declaration of No Legal Impediment to Marriage.

It sounds intense. It’s not.

What is the Declaration?

As close as possible to the date of your wedding, you and your partner each sign a declaration confirming that there is no legal reason you can’t marry.

I provide the form. 

Most couples sign it on the day, just before the ceremony.

What you are declaring

By signing, each of you declares that:

• you are over 18 years old
• you are not married to someone else
• you are not in a prohibited relationship (for example, parent/child or siblings)
• you understand what marriage means
• you are there of your own free will
• there is no other legal barrier to the marriage.

I witness and sign it as your celebrant.

Why it matters

This is part of what makes your marriage legally valid in Australia.

It’s also one of the reasons it’s helpful to work with a celebrant who is organised and experienced with overseas couples – because you don’t want paperwork surprises when you’ve flown across the world.

If you’re coming to Melbourne from overseas to get married, the first legal step is paperwork.

The good news is: it’s not hard.

The slightly annoying news is: one key form is a bit outdated.

That form is the Notice of Intended Marriage, often shortened to NOIM. It’s the official notice you give your celebrant to say, “Yes, we intend to marry.”

What is the NOIM?

The NOIM is a legal form I must receive from you at least one month before your wedding date.

Once I’ve received it, it remains valid for 18 months. That gives you plenty of flexibility.

If you haven’t done this before (and most people haven’t), don’t worry. I’ll guide you through it.

You can also read my step-by-step guide to getting married in Melbourne here.
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The “marriage terms” on the NOIM (partner, bride, groom)

When you complete the NOIM, each of you must tick one of these options:

• partner
• bride
• groom

These terms are a relic from a time when only straight couples were allowed to marry in Australia.

You might not like any of them. Many couples don’t. But you do need to tick one.

The important part is this: anyone can tick any option.

It’s completely fine for anyone – regardless of gender identity or sexuality – to tick “bride” or “groom” if that feels right.

Do we need to provide evidence of our gender?

No.

The gender question on the NOIM is optional. You can leave it blank.

And to be honest, the options don’t reflect the full reality of how people identify anyway. If the form doesn’t fit you, you’re allowed to not force yourself into it.

A gentle note from me

If you’re travelling from overseas, paperwork can feel stressful = especially if you’ve had to hide your relationship in the past.

My approach is simple: calm, private, and respectful. You’ll never be rushed. You’ll never be judged. And nothing happens without your consent.
If you’d like to get started, contact me here: https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/contact/

In Australia, your celebrant must receive your Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) at least one month before your ceremony.

In limited circumstances, you can apply for a legal “shortening of time”.

Can the one month waiting period be shortened?

Sometimes – but only under specific circumstances, and there is no guarantee of approval.

‘Shortening of time’ applications are assessed by a prescribed authority, not by your celebrant.

What circumstances can be considered for a ‘Shortening of time’?

There are only five categories:

1. employment-related or travel commitments
2. wedding arrangements or religious considerations
3. medical reasons
4. legal proceedings
5. error in giving notice

If your reason doesn’t fall into one of these categories, it can’t be considered.

What are the steps?

In simple terms:

1. contact a celebrant (who is willing to marry you at short notice)
2. complete the NOIM correctly (witnessed properly)
3. choose a provisional ceremony date
4. request a support letter from your celebrant
5. attend a prescribed authority with your documents and evidence
6. return the approved paperwork to your celebrant

If you think you may need this option, contact me as early as possible – it’s much easier when we have time to prepare: https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/contact/

Is it better to use cash or credit cards in Australia, when we travel? 

Many Australians don’t use cash. We use cards almost all the time. If you wish to bring some Australian dollars, then feel free to do so. But most places where you stay or shop will accept cards. Before you travel to Australia, be careful to check the bank fees that may apply on your card if you use it in Australia. 

What’s the best way to get from the international airport to the city centre of Melbourne? 

The easiest way to get from Tullamarine International Airport to the city centre of Melbourne is to catch the Skybus. They leave the airport every 10-15 minutes and run express into the city centre. They will take you into Southern Cross Train Station, one of the main transport hubs in Melbourne. You can find the Skybus immediately outside the international terminal. You can buy your tickets here: https://www.skybus.com.au/buy-tickets/ 

Alternatively, you can hire an Uber or Taxi (cab) from immediately outside the international terminal. There is an orderly queue for each. 

Places to stay

There are some suburbs in Melbourne that are known for being friendly to LGBTIQA+ people. You can check out https://www.booking.com/district/au/melbourne/cbd.en-gb.html or https://www.airbnb.com.au/melbourne-australia/ stays for safe places to stay in the following areas: < Melbourne city centre < Fitzroy < Northcote < Kensington < Docklands < South Yarra 

Where do you recommend we eat breakfast? 

If you’re keen for a variety of flavours and textures early in the morning, then go to the buffet at Conservatory at Crown: https://www.crownmelbourne.com.au/whats-on – from cereals, to bakery items, to cooked breakfasts – you will be able to graze on a range of flavours here. 

Alternatively, get a table at any of the cafes featured in this link: https://whatson.melbourne.vic.gov.au/article/ melbournes-best-hidden-laneway-cafes No matter if you’re after a full breakfast or something a little less filling or bakery-based food, you will be able to find something that will tempt your palate. It’s places like these that the locals eat at. 

Or check out Brunetti Oro in Flinders Lane for a delectable breakfast – https://brunettioro.com.au/flinders-lanemenu/#brunetti-menu While you’re there, make sure you also getting one of their delicious small cakes or tarts, for morning tea. 

There’s a massive range and everything is made fresh each day. Enjoy – and have a Melbourne coffee, of course, to go with whatever you order. Our coffee is arguably the best in Australia! 

Where do you recommend we eat lunch in Melbourne? 

My most recent favourite place to eat lunch in Melbourne is Miss Mi. It’s centrally located and has the most delicious food! Check it out here: https://missmimelbourne.com.au/lunchmenu/ – I can recommend the Spiced Fried Lamb Ribs &Chili Caramel; Mang Larry’s Style Kangaroo Skewers, Mango Ensalada, Bagoong, Lardo; Hainan Style Chicken, Nitish Curry, Pickled Mushroom; Crispy Pork Belly, Apple Acharu, Radish, Red Oak Lettuce; and Wok Fried Vegetables, Chili Jam, Aromats; and rice. 

Alternatively, if you’d like to sample an amazing variety of cuisines and take your time having a long lunch, then you can’t beat Melba Restaurant’s buffet, located at The Langham Hotel just across the Yarra River from Flinders Street Station. You can get an idea of what’s on offer, here: https://melbarestaurant.com.au/dine/lunch/ We go there several times a year when we just want a nice, relaxing lunch together. Make sure you book in advance, as it can get quite busy! 

If you’re after some fabulous Chinese yum cha, then go no further than Crystal Jade in Chinatown – you can check out what’s available here: http://www.crystaljademelbourne.com.au/dimsim.php My tip would be to get there early (11:30am) as it can get very busy. The service is quick and pragmatic. The staff aren’t particularly friendly, but the food is very good. Last time we went, they still had trolleys full of steaming hot food, from which you choose what you want to eat. Yum cha is as much a about the experience of eating as it is about the food. Enjoy! 

Looking for a typical Aussie meal? Then one of our favourite hotels (or pubs, as we call them) is the Elephant and Wheelbarrow Hotel in the city centre – https://elephantandwheelbarrow.com/. Our favourite meals are a Chicken Parma or a Traditional Fish n Chips. Of course, you need to wash the food down with a lager. Then you can go home and brag to your friends that you ate true Australian food! My husband and I spent the night before our wedding at this pub, celebrating with friends. A warning: it can get busy but there are lots of tables! 

Where to you recommend we eat dinner in Melbourne? 

Oh, where do I start? We have several favourites. If you’re after contemporary Australian cuisine and want to be made to feel quite special, you can’t go past Cutler and Co. Check out their dinner menu – it’s exquisite: https://www.cutlerandco.com.au/menu – scroll down. This restaurant is consistently voted as one of Melbourne’s best places to eat.

If it’s Asian fusion food you’re after, then one of our favourite places is Longrain. This is their menu: https:// longrainmelbourne.com/food/ I can happily recommend: Betel leaf, poached prawn, peanuts, lime; Filled eggnet, spanner crab, caramelised coconut, bean shoots, peanuts; Crisp whole fish, tamarind, roasted rice, lime; Coconut poached chicken, Vietnamese mint, pickled green chillies; Rendang curry, fried tofu, asparagus, summer squash, lotus root; Stir fried gai lan, chilli, yellow bean soy; and Steamed jasmine rice. 

If your budget has few limitations, then head to Flower Drum. It’s one of Melbourne’s iconic Chinese restaurants. Get your mouth watering before you even inside the place, by checking out what’s on offer: https://flowerdrum. melbourne/our-food/ 

Carlton is renowned as one of Melbourne’s Italian hubs. Lygon Street, Carlton, is lined with Italian restaurants and cafes that churn out authentic Italian food, 7 days a week. Simply walk down the street and have a look at the sample menus outside a range of restaurants – then choose one that has a vibe that seems attractive to you, And enjoy yourself. Buon appetito!

Great Ocean Road https://greatoceanroadmelbournetours.com.au/ – Victorians are very proud of the Great Ocean Road. It’s one of our main tourist attractions. You can take a full day trip – either a guided tour or a self-drive tour – and explore sights such as the lovely town of Torquay, surf beaches, redwood forests (https://visitotways.com/otways-adventures/ redwoods-in-beech-forest-victoria/) and the twelve apostles – coastal landforms. 

Local tip: the Great Ocean Road can get very busy, especially in the height of summer, so plan to leave early to get there before the influx of other tourists arrive. 

Healesville Sanctuary – https://www.zoo.org.au/healesville – f you’d like to see Australian native animals, then get to Healesville Sanctuary. You’ll be able to see koalas, kangaroos, platypus, dingoes, wombats and emus. If you don’t have a car, google ‘guided tours of Healesville Sanctuary’ for some options. If you are able to, allow 3 – 4 hours at the Sanctuary. If you can, consider a trip on Puffing Billy, an historic steam train. Again, a google search will provide you with options for combining these two tourist attractions on the one day. 

Local tip: these attractions can get busy, so try to get there early! 

Werribee Zoo https://www.zoo.org.au/werribee/ – this is an open range zoo. You won’t find animals caged up, but rather you will be able to see the large animals from the comfort of a safari bus! Check out the website above for details of opening hours and tickets. Do a google search for the best way to get to Werribee Zoo. This is one of Australia’s finest open range zoos. 

Yarra Valley https://www.visityarravalley.com.au/ – a little over an hour from the city centre of Melbourne is the Yarra Valley, best known for its world-famous wines and charming small towns. If you’re driving, then take time to stop and stroll around some of these towns. Check out their quaint shops. If it’s wine you’re after, perhaps do a wine tasting at one of our favourite wineries in the area, Chandon – https://www.chandon.com.au/ – or spoil yourselves and do lunch or dinner at Yering Station Winery, (https://www.yering.com/) the oldest and, in our opinion, best in the Valley. Trust me when I say that their staff make you feel very special. Having lunch or dinner there will be one of the special memories that will stay with you long after you return home. 

Day trip to Bendigo https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bendigo – if you have time for a day trip, why not go by train to Bendigo. Catch the train to Bendigo from southern Cross Station in the city centre of Melbourne and, two hours later, arrive within a short walk of the city centre of Bendigo. 

On the way, you may be lucky enough to see some wild kangaroos jumping in the paddocks alongside the train track! Bendigo was the site of a gold rush in the 1850s, attracting many Chinese gold miners to the goldfields. The extracted gold enabled Melbourne to become one of the world’s most impressive cities in the 1880s, when it was known for its stylish, fashionable ways. 

Today, Bendigo is known for its art galleries, its Chinese Dragon Museum and its public gardens. You can also take an underground tour of an old gold mine!

You can get married at any time on any day, anywhere, in Melbourne. For example, you can get married in a public park or garden, on a beach or in your hotel room. Wherever you like. 

If you’d like to get married in by front yard in Pascoe Vale, you’re very welcome to do so. There is no additional fee for doing so. Always remember that, if you’re getting married in a public place such as a public park or garden or a beach: 

1. it’s advisable to check with the relevant local government authority to see if a permit is required. I have included the appropriate links below, for the public spaces I mention. 
2. It’s a great idea to have a back-up plan, in case it is very hot, or rainy or windy on the day you want to get married. 
3. It’s a public place. That means there will likely be other people close by. They may be curious about the fact that you’re getting married, even to the point where they may want to watch your ceremony and even take some photos. Whilst we can remind them that this is a private event, and ask them to be discreet, these are public places and they have a right to be there. 

Here are some of my favourite non-traditional places to get married in Melbourne: 

Treasury Gardens 

The Treasury Gardens consist of almost 6 hectares of lovely gardens and park spaces on the south-eastern side of the Melbourne city centre. They are some of the oldest gardens in Melbourne. 

You can access them easily simply by walking eastwards across Spring Street – they are certainly within easy walking distance of the city centre of Melbourne. The thing I like about Treasury Gardens is that they contain so many hidden places where you can have a pretty but intimate marriage ceremony – it may be under a canopy of tree branches, or around a corner where no one seems to be. And, of course, there are countless gorgeous places within the Gardens to get some really nice photographs taken. 

You can find out more information here: https://whatson.melbourne.vic.gov.au/things-to-do/treasury-gardens 

You may wish to check out the John F Kennedy Memorial, located in Treasury Gardens. It’s a quiet place to get married. You can read more about it, here: https://citycollection.melbourne.vic.gov.au/john-f-kennedy-memorial/ 

You can check the requirements for a permit to get married in Treasury Gardens here: https://www.melbourne.vic.gov. au/community/organising-events/weddings/Pages/wedding-permit-application.aspx 

Fitzroy Gardens

Situated on the side of Treasury Gardens away from the city centre is Fitzroy Gardens, another very old public garden close to the city centre of Melbourne, and walkable from there. They are five times bigger than Treasury Gardens. 

Again, you can choose from a large number of spots within Fitzroy Gardens, to get married. There are some wonderful trees with large canopies that form almost a green cave-like structure to get married in or under. 

You can find out more information here: https://www.melbourne.vic.gov.au/community/parks-open-spaces/major-parksgardens/pages/fitzroy-gardens.aspx 

You can check the requirements for a permit to get married in Fitzroy Gardens here: https://www.melbourne.vic.gov. au/community/organising-events/weddings/Pages/wedding-permit-application.aspx 

The Grotto 

The Grotto is a hidden gem just outside the city centre of Melbourne. It’s a quick Uber or taxi ride from the city centre. It’s so hidden that you may take some time to find it. When you do, you’ll head down a small path that leads to a small waterfall and pool. 

Oh and did OI mention that there’s a tiny bridge on which you can stand as you get married? It’s perfect for a private, intimate wedding. It can get cold in there, so be prepared to wear layers of clothing! 

You can find more information here: https://citycollection.melbourne.vic.gov.au/grotto-waterfall/ 

You can check the requirements for a permit to get married in The Grotto here: https://www.melbourne.vic.gov.au/ community/organising-events/weddings/Pages/wedding-permit-application.aspx 

South Melbourne beach 

If you’d like to get married on one of Melbourne’s iconic beaches, catch a Number 109 Tram from the corner of Spencer Street and Collins Street in the city centre and get off the tram at Stop 129, at Port Melbourne. It will take you around 14 minutes on the tram. Note: you will need a Myki card to take this trip on the tram as it’s outside the free tram zone. Check details and times through the PTV app. 

Getting there: From Stop 129, you will be able to walk along a long, white sandy beach. Choose wherever you’d like to get married. If you wish, after you’ve got married, take off your shoes and walk southwards, away from the city centre, for several kilometres to experience the delight of walking on some of our best know beaches. 

We’re very fortunate to have such fine, clean beaches within such a short distance from the centre of Australia’s largest city. 

You can find more information here: https://www.melbourneplaygrounds.com.au/south-melbourne-beach 

You can check the requirements for a permit to get married on South Melbourne beach here: https://www.portphillip. vic.gov.au/council-services/events-venues-and-performers/outdoor-weddings-and-celebrations-permits-andbookings 

St Kilda Botanic Gardens

One of the most serene and peaceful places to get married just out of Melbourne’s city centre is St Kilda Botanic Gardens. These gardens contain a huge variety of plants and flowers. You may have trouble choosing a favourite location within the Gardens to get married! 

You can find more information here: https://www.portphillip.vic.gov.au/explore-the-city/beaches-parks-andplaygrounds/find-parks-and-playgrounds/st-kilda-botanical-gardens 

You can check the requirements for a permit to get married at St Kilda Botanic Gardens here: https://www.portphillip.vic. gov.au/council-services/events-venues-and-performers/outdoor-weddings-and-celebrations-permits-and-bookings 

Getting there: Depending on the time of day, you can catch a Number 96 tram from the corner of Spencer Street and Bourke Street in the city centre and get off the tram at Stop 139, at Belford Street / Acland Street, then walk for approximately 15 minutes to get to the Botanical Gardens. It will take you around 25 minutes on the tram before the walk. Note: you will need a Myki card to take this trip on the tram as it’s outside the free tram zone. Check details and times through the PTV app. 

Queen’s Park, Moonee Ponds

If you’re looking for a pretty, informal spot to get married just a little way (11km) out of the city centre of Melbourne, then head to Queen’s Park in Moonee Ponds. It’s green and full of large trees, shrubs and flowers throughout the year. Its well-kept lawns are an invitation to throw a rug on the ground and celebrate your marriage with a gorgeous picnic. 

It’s one of those public venues that has lots of little spaces to get married and perhaps have some photos taken afterwards: by a pond? On a foot bridge? Under a large tree? By some flowering shrubs? The choice is yours! 

You can find more information here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queens_Park,_Moonee_Ponds You can check the requirements for a permit to get married at Queen’s Park, Moonee Ponds here: https://mvcc. smartygrants.com.au/weddingpermit 

Getting there: Depending on the time of day, you can catch a Craigieburn train from Southern Cross Railway Station in the city centre and get off the train at Moonee Ponds Railway station. Then walk for approximately 20 minutes to get to Queen’s Park. It will take you around 30 minutes for the entire trip. Note: you will need a Myki card to take this trip on the train. Check details and times through the PTV app. 

Other alternative wedding venues 

You can also check out some of my other favourite alternative venues to get married, here: https://gaycelebrant. melbourne/recommended-wedding-suppliers-melbourne/

The legal vows in Australia are often misunderstood.

Some couples worry they’ll be forced into gendered language or outdated wording.

You have more choice than you think.

Are legal vows different for LGBTIQA+ couples?

No. The legal requirement is the same for everyone.

But you can choose wording that better reflects your relationship, including non-gendered language.

What do we have to say?

The traditional version is:

“I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, A.B., take thee, C.D., to be my lawful wedded wife/husband/spouse…”

But Australian marriage law allows “words to that effect”, which means modern wording is completely lawful.

Modern vow options you can use

Many couples choose something like:

“I ask everyone here to witness that I, A.B., take you, C.D., to be my lawful partner in marriage.”

Or:

“I ask everyone here to witness that I, A.B., take you, C.D., to be my wedded partner in marriage.”

You can also swap out words like:

• “call upon” → “ask”
• “persons” → “people”
• “thee” → “you”
• “wife/husband” → “partner in marriage”

I’ll help you choose something that feels right and meets the legal requirements.

Do we have to say personal vows too?

No.

Personal vows are optional.

Some couples love them. 

Others prefer to keep things private and write each other a letter to read later over dinner, which I find incredibly romantic.

If you’d like vow inspiration, I can send you a variety of personal vow examples.

Do we have to exchange rings?

Also optional.

Some couples exchange rings with words. Some simply put them on. 

Some exchange watches, bracelets, or something more personal. Some don’t do rings at all.

All of these are valid.

If you’re planning to marry overseas, it’s important to know this:

You can’t legally marry the same person twice in Australia.

Can we get married overseas, then get married again in Australia?

Not legally, no.

But you can absolutely have:

• a commitment ceremony, or
• a renewal of vows ceremony

These can look and feel like a wedding – they just need to be clearly described as non-legal ceremonies.

Will our overseas marriage be recognised in Australia?

Often, yes.

Generally, an overseas marriage will be recognised in Australia if:

• it was legally valid in the country where it took place, and
• it would also be considered valid under Australian law

However, overseas marriages cannot be “registered” in Australia. 

Your overseas marriage certificate remains your evidence that you are married.

Are overseas LGBTIQA+ marriages recognised in Australia?

Yes – Australian law recognises many overseas same-sex marriages.

If your marriage is recognised in Australia, you generally can’t marry again here unless there is doubt about the validity of the overseas marriage.

If you’re unsure, I recommend seeking legal advice – and I’m always happy to talk through ceremony options if you’re planning a celebration in Melbourne.

You may also like: 

Renewal of vows ceremonies in Melbourne: https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/renewing-wedding-on-3aw/

Commitment ceremonies in Melbourne.

https://gaycelebrant.melbourne/civil-marriage-commitment-ceremony-ideas/

As Melbourne is the largest city in Australia, there’s always plenty on and many things for tourists to see. 

Here are some of my favourites: 

Guided Tour of Melbourne 

If you have time, book into a guided tour of Melbourne – https://www.viator.com/tours/Melbourne/Melbourne-CityDiscovery-Tour/d384-3181P15 You will be taken to the highlights of the city and be given a tour of icons such as the Melbourne Cricket Ground. The best thing about these tours is that you don’t have to find your way to the tourist sights – you’ll be taken there and be informed about them and their history etc by a local. 

Queen Victoria Market https://qvm.com.au/ – this is one of our favourite places in Melbourne. It’s easy to either by walking or by free tram. It has 100s of stalls – food stalls (fish, chicken, lamb and beef), to cheese stalls, cake and bakery stalls and so on. Why not pick up a range of goodies from here and go on a picnic at one of the public gardens, such as Flagstaff Gardens – nearby? In the outside area of the market, you will find all sorts of clothing and souvenir stalls. It’s easy to spend a couple of hours here! 

Laneways https://www.visitvictoria.com/regions/melbourne/destinations/laneways – Melbourne is famous for its laneways, each of which offers a different experience. If it’s graffiti art you’re after, or a funky café for a coffee or breakfast, or a fashionable boutique, then check out these laneways and get yourself there! It’s a wonderful part of Melbourne that you won’t find to the same extent in any other Australian city. Trams Melbourne’s trams are a part of the city’s history. If you are going to travel outside the city centre, then I suggest you download the PTV app or use this link to plan your journey – https://www.ptv.vic.gov.au/journey/ simply enter the name of the café or place you wish to go, and indicate where you are travelling from and it will tell you which tram or train or bus to take. 

Melbourne’s tram system 

There is an extensive tram network that takes you around the major parts of the city centre as well as out into the suburbs. Travelling by tram in the city centre is free – the city’s Free Tram Zone extends from Queen Victoria Market to Docklands, Spring Street, Flinders Street Station and Federation Square. Travel on the City Circle Tram is also free – you can hop on and off these historic trams as often as you like. If you wish to go outside the Free Tram Zone, you will need to purchase a Myki card: https://www.ptv.vic.gov.au/ tickets/myki/buy-a-myki-and-top-up/ Southbank Take a long stroll along Southbank, where you will see a range of cultural venues, including the National Gallery of Victoria and the Melbourne Recital Centre which hosts classical concerts. There are clubs, food courts and designer shops in the Crown Casino complex. The lively riverside promenades feature al fresco fine dining and cargo sheds housing craft-beer bars and a German bier-haus. If you’ve got time, take a leisurely cruise along Melbourne’s Yarra River and see the city from the water – https://www.viator.com/tours/Melbourne/1-hourYarra-River-Cruise/d384-264934P1 

Chinatown https://chinatownmelbourne.com.au/ – is the hub of Chinese cuisine and shopping in the city centre of Melbourne. Stroll along Little Bourke Street, check out the sample menus and let your tastebuds decide what you will eat. From yum cha to al-a-carte, whatever you want in terms of Chinese food, you’re likely to be able to find here – and at a range of budgets. 

Australian Centre of the Moving Image (ACMI) https://www.acmi.net.au/plan-your-visit/ – there’s one thing that can be guaranteed about the Australian Centre of the Moving Image: there’s always something happening there. Whether it’s a new exhibition, or series of films, or theatrical piece, you’ll be able to find something that resonates with you and stimulates you, long after you’re left. Situated at the edgy Federation Square, it’s a place where you can easily spend several hours, savouring all that’s on offer. 

National Gallery of Victoria (NGV) https://www.ngv.vic.gov.au/ – is Melbourne’s heart of the arts industry. It features a range of collections, exhibitions and events. Admission to the NGV is free but some exhibitions may require a fee to get into. Oh, and there is a range of free guided tours that you can choose to take while you are there! 

Eureka Skydeck https://www.melbourneskydeck.com.au/ is for thrill seekers who are keen to get the most out of their stay in Melbourne. It provides a range of experiences, including a high view of the city that is only available at Skydeck. Meals are available, also. Known for having the fastest lifts (or elevators) in the southern hemisphere, you will be whisked to 88 floors above ground level for a once-in-a-lifetime view. 

Royal Arcade https://royalarcade.com.au/ is an historic arcade of cafes and shops that’s well worth a visit. It is more than 150 years old and has long opening hours, 7 days a week. Block Arcade https://theblock.com.au/ – is also an old historic arcade, full of interesting shops. It’s one of Melbourne’s best-known tourist attractions. If you can, make a booking for high tea at The Tea Rooms 1892 – it’s very much one of Melbourne’s ‘must do’ experiences. 

Chocolate tours https://www.chocoholictours.com.au/chocolate-walking-tours/ Indulge yourselves while you’re in Melbourne and book into a walking tour designed for people who love chocolate! These tours are led by professionals who know their stuff and who are passionate about Melbourne’s chocolate industry. 

Royal Botanic Gardens https://www.rbg.vic.gov.au/melbourne-gardens/ – if you’re after some quiet time, head to Melbourne’s Royal Botanic Gardens. They’re more than 170 years old and admission is free. Take as much or as little time to explore as much of the gardens as you like – it contains more than 8500 species of plants. Lie on your back and watch the clouds zoom by above; or get a shady spot and enjoy a picnic under a massive tree. 

Luna Park https://lunapark.com.au/plan-your-visit/getting-here/ – feeling playful and want some excitement? Then catch a tram and head to Luna Park in St Kilda. It has all the feels of a carnival. Thrill yourself out on the world’s oldest continually operating roller coaster; or go on the sky rider. Grab some carnival food, and have a fun day, as if you were a child again! While you are in St Kilda, walk the short distance from Luna Park to St Kilda Beach, take your shoes off and walk on one of our beautiful white sandy beaches. 

St Kilda Botanic Gardens https://www.portphillip.vic.gov.au/explore-the-city/beaches-parks-and-playgrounds/find-parks-and-playgrounds/stkilda-botanical-gardens – is one of those places where you could lose yourself in your thoughts for hours. It has numerous displays. And you walk on winding paths that lead you to new parts of the garden that had been hidden until you arrive at them. Admission is free. Why not pack a picnic, find a shady space in the gardens and enjoy this part of Melbourne, close to the beach, as part of your visit here? 

Prahran (pronounced Pran) – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prahran – is one of Melbourne’s most LGBTIQA+ friendly suburbs. You can get a tram there – check how to get there, on the PTV app. Stroll down trendy Chapel Street, or have a look at Prahran Market. Have a meal at one of its pubs. Whatever you choose to do here, it will linger in your memories as having been a time when you got to spend it with some of Melbourne’s friendly locals. 

Richmond https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richmond,_Victoria – is an inner suburb of Melbourne with a relatively young demographic. It’s easy to get to either by tram or train (you will need to use your Myki pass to get there) and has a diversity of things to see and experience. Richmond is known for its amazing Vietnamese restaurants, many of which are located on Victoria Street. Most of them require no bookings – just walk in!

If you’re travelling to Melbourne from overseas, you probably have a few practical questions. Here are the ones I hear most often.

Can we get married in Melbourne if we live in different countries?

Yes.

As long as you both meet the legal requirements (over 18, not already married, not closely related, freely consenting), you can marry in Melbourne – regardless of where you live.

Can we keep our marriage secret from our parents?

Yes.

You can tell everyone. Or you can tell no one.

If privacy is important to you, I won’t take photos on my phone and I won’t post anything online.

And yes – I’m very good at keeping secrets.

Will you take photos and post them to social media?

Only if you want me to.

Some couples are private. Some are public. Some are somewhere in between.

We’ll talk about it in advance, and nothing will happen without your clear consent.

We don’t know anyone in Australia. can you help with witnesses?

Yes.

our witnesses must be:

• over 18
• able to understand English

If you don’t know people here, I can arrange witnesses for you.

Do we have to stay in Australia for a minimum amount of time?

No.

There is no minimum stay requirement.

Some couples fly in, marry, and fly home the same day. 

Others stay longer. 

Both options are completely fine.

How long does it take to receive the registered marriage certificate?

After your ceremony, I lodge the paperwork with the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages in Victoria.

I upload it quickly (usually within 24 hours). 

Registration time varies, but it is often around one month.

If you’d like, I can also help organise your registered certificate to be sent to a safe address.

Can you provide a letter of support for our visa application?

Yes.

If you need a visa support letter, I can provide one confirming:

• I am an authorised celebrant
• I have received a valid noim
• you have engaged me to marry you on a specific date and location

There is a fee for this service, which I’ll confirm clearly upfront.